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Speech Through Play: 3 Games for the Park or Beach

By Jessica Bescos··5 min read

One of the best things about living on the Palos Verdes Peninsula is that we're never more than ten minutes from a beach or a park with an ocean view. And as a speech pathologist, I see every tide pool, sandbox, and hiking trail as a language-learning opportunity. My kids just think we're having fun. (Don't tell them.)

Here are three of our favorite outdoor games that build speech and language skills — no materials needed beyond what nature provides.

Game 1: Sandcastle Narration

Where we play it: Torrance Beach, Abalone Cove, or any sandy spot.

How it works: Build a sandcastle together and narrate every step out loud. "First, we fill the bucket. Pat, pat, pat! Now flip it over — ready? One, two, three! Oh, it's a tower! Let's make it taller." This is called "sportscasting" or "parallel talk," and it bathes your child in rich, descriptive language connected to what they're actively doing.

Language skills it builds: Sequencing words (first, then, next), action verbs (dig, fill, dump, pat, flip), descriptive words (wet, dry, tall, crumbly), and requesting ("more water!" "another bucket!").

Make it harder for older kids: Ask them to instruct YOU on how to build. "Tell me what to do first." This flips the script and practices giving directions — a more advanced language skill. My seven-year-old loves being the "boss builder" and his instructions have gotten impressively detailed: "Okay Mama, dig a moat around the whole castle and make it this deep."

Game 2: Wave Countdown

Where we play it: Any beach — we love Lunada Bay for watching the waves.

How it works: Stand at the water's edge and wait for waves together. Count down: "Here it comes... three... two... one... SPLASH! Run!" Then: "Did the wave get your toes? My toes are wet! Cold water!" The anticipation, the counting, the running and squealing — it's a full-body, full-language experience.

Language skills it builds: Counting and number words, anticipation language ("ready? here it comes!"), sensory vocabulary (cold, wet, splashy, sandy), and cause-and-effect ("The big wave made us run!").

Why kids love it: Because they get to scream and run. Honestly, the sheer joy of running from waves is one of the purest things in childhood. My four-year-old has a full commentary going: "It's coming it's coming it's coming — AHHHH!" That's spontaneous language, and it's beautiful.

Game 3: Nature Scavenger Hunt

Where we play it: Point Vicente, the PV trails, any park with a little nature.

How it works: Before you head out, name three to five things to find: "Let's find something smooth, something rough, a flower, a bug, and a feather." Then explore together, narrating as you go. "Look under this rock! Do you see anything? Oh — a roly-poly! It's so tiny. It's curling into a ball!"

Language skills it builds: Descriptive vocabulary (smooth, rough, slimy, prickly), categories (things that are alive, things that grow, things we find at the beach), prepositions (under the rock, behind the bush, on top of the hill), and question-asking ("Where should we look next?").

Adapt it for any age: For toddlers, keep it to two or three items and use picture cards if they're not ready for verbal descriptions. For preschoolers, let them tell you what to look for. My son now creates his own scavenger hunts for his sister, and hearing him explain the rules is its own language assessment — he uses complete sentences, transition words, and checks for her understanding. It makes my SLP heart sing.

The Outdoor Advantage

There's something about being outside that loosens kids up. The pressure's off. There are no "correct" answers. The environment is full of novel things to see, touch, hear, and talk about. I consistently see children use more language outdoors than they do in structured settings.

So this weekend, skip the screen time guilt and head to the beach or a park. You don't need a plan — just your voice, your curiosity, and a willingness to get a little sandy. Your child's language will thank you for it.

Want more activity ideas tailored to your child's specific language goals? I love creating personalized "play plans" for South Bay families. Let's connect and get your little one talking up a storm — one sandcastle at a time.

Jessica, certified speech-language pathologist

Meet Jessica Bescos

Certified and licensed speech-language pathologist, mom of two, and firm believer that honest, practical speech and language guidance should feel warm, doable, and grounded in everyday family life. Based in Palos Verdes, CA.

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